how a guy should treat his gal
tonight isnt really the ideal night to be studying.... in front and behind my block all have block activities. i was just sitting here reading about sigma delta converters when i thought of the phone call i had two nights ago. of course, there is no link between the two. that shows how much my attention span is.it made me wonder, how a guy should treat his gal. in an ideal world of love, i believe that gals are supposed to be taken care by guys, loved by guys, sheltered by guys, protected by guys. have to be there for her when she needs u(and even when she doesn't). listen to her when she talks, grumble, whine... lend her a shoulder when she crys. joyful when she's happy, conforting when she's sad. stay by her when she's sick, miss her when she's away.
but i suppose what is most important is the sense of security and stability. gals want to be able to retreat into a warm embrace that will forever be there for her. a place where she can be safe from the outside world, a haven where she can nestle in the world of love, a fireplace that warms her heart. the feeling of being protected... is there not a gal who wants her man to provide that very basic requirement. the most basic and yet the most important value in a relationship.
to be loved, like a newborn baby to her mom...
but are all guys capable of doing that? sometimes we don't. and sometimes we don't have a choice. we can't always be there all the time. but one thing i'm sure is we always try our best to do it. be it rain or shine, summer or winter, guys out there will agree with me. if you love her, you will always stand by her and protect her. even when we are down and out, we sound like we don't care... but we do... we try to be sensitive, and we need sensitivity as well.
to be understood, like a mentor to his protege
and what is needed is a little bit of compromise... you give and take, i take and give. when we accept that, it would be an ideal love, in each other's eyes.
and if that don't work out, don't force it anymore... there will be someone else there who would be the one to love and protect you. and you can be the one to love him back...
Fate and Destiny.... if you believe in them....
posted by luxy @ 7:31 PM
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